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Falling In Love
Do you fall in love easy? Do you seem to love to the bitter end even if it's bad for yourself? Do you hate to be alone, like you haven't accepted yourself?
To be or not to be?....The famous question.
Being in love is very exciting and captivating. It is a great and wonderful thing, but it can be like a drug. Once you've had it you don't want to live without it. It is most common to be captivated by the first three or four months of a relationship. We are begging for this thing to get serious, constantly craving more and more, needing to feel the certainty of love, and the significance to our partner. For those of us who fall in love quickly, that will be when you begin to ask yourself "Am I in love?"
This part of a relationship is called "Courting", when everything is new and you have not run out of things to talk about, and those cute little things they do have not turned into those annoying BIG things they will not stop doing. Even after that stage when some of the good times turn to arguments and some of the missed calls create insecurities and jealousness, those of us who love will see right past it. Seeing the people who are happy and inseparable make us want it even more.
Becoming infatuated with the "ideal relationship", we want to settle and soon enough your stuck in a relationship because of the company and the label you gave it. So step out of the situation and look AT it rather than looking FROM it. Instead, learn to love yourself first; make sure you are comfortable enough with yourself that if you are alone you don't feel incomplete. Find an art, a comfort zone, pamper yourself, spoil yourself.
You can even have a good time alone without spending money...take a long warm bath once a week. Do something that makes you feel good inside....about yourself, for yourself.
-Arlonna
To be or not to be?....The famous question.
Being in love is very exciting and captivating. It is a great and wonderful thing, but it can be like a drug. Once you've had it you don't want to live without it. It is most common to be captivated by the first three or four months of a relationship. We are begging for this thing to get serious, constantly craving more and more, needing to feel the certainty of love, and the significance to our partner. For those of us who fall in love quickly, that will be when you begin to ask yourself "Am I in love?"
This part of a relationship is called "Courting", when everything is new and you have not run out of things to talk about, and those cute little things they do have not turned into those annoying BIG things they will not stop doing. Even after that stage when some of the good times turn to arguments and some of the missed calls create insecurities and jealousness, those of us who love will see right past it. Seeing the people who are happy and inseparable make us want it even more.
Becoming infatuated with the "ideal relationship", we want to settle and soon enough your stuck in a relationship because of the company and the label you gave it. So step out of the situation and look AT it rather than looking FROM it. Instead, learn to love yourself first; make sure you are comfortable enough with yourself that if you are alone you don't feel incomplete. Find an art, a comfort zone, pamper yourself, spoil yourself.
You can even have a good time alone without spending money...take a long warm bath once a week. Do something that makes you feel good inside....about yourself, for yourself.
-Arlonna
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